{"id":3206,"date":"2025-07-17T15:23:44","date_gmt":"2025-07-17T13:23:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.sonofcarey.com\/?p=3206"},"modified":"2025-07-17T15:23:47","modified_gmt":"2025-07-17T13:23:47","slug":"11-ways-we-may-love-lying","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sonofcarey.com\/?p=3206","title":{"rendered":"11 Ways We May Love Lying"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>For the month of July, our churches are praying from Psalm 119:163, &#8220;I hate and abhor lying.&#8221; But how can a Christian pray from those few words? Especially, if you think of yourself as a generally honest person? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We love lies when&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>We speak falsely about events.<br>&#8220;I bought those shoes for $10!&#8221; (It really was a good deal, but you paid $25.)<br>&#8220;Oh, I didn&#8217;t see you.&#8221; (Spoken to an acquaintance you had seen in a store but did not want to greet.)<br>This is probably the most common thought that we have of what a &#8220;lie&#8221; is.<br><br><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>We allow, foster, and cultivate false views of ourselves. <br>&#8220;I don&#8217;t have many things to confess.&#8221; (How can someone sold under sin not have much to confess?)<br><a href=\"https:\/\/www.sonofcarey.com\/?p=2934\">The pictures used in Scripture are heavy<\/a>, and it is a lie to act or talk as if those do not apply to me&#8211;a slave, a dog, and a sinner. False views of ourselves prompted Elihu to pray, &#8220;That which I see not, teach thou me.&#8221;<br><br><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>We reach negative conclusions about someone with very little evidence. <br><br><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>We remember incorrectly in order to appear more clever, more to be pitied, more authoritative, or more self-denying.<br>&#8220;I&#8217;ve probably read the Bible through 10 times or more.&#8221; (In reality, perhaps you read it through 2 times completely, 4 times in the New Testament, and then returned again and again to the Psalms.) <br>&#8220;My husband doesn&#8217;t help.&#8221; (Maybe he helps commonly, but that one time when you were having an especially bad day, he ignored you.)<br><br><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>We soften sins that we might be implicated in.<br>&#8220;The movies I enjoy are honest about this sinful world.&#8221; (Perhaps, the Lord Jesus is ashamed of that entertainment, and you know it.)<br>&#8220;The comforts of this life should be enjoyed.&#8221; (Said by a man who spends far more on personal comfort, and only rarely invests in churchplanting.) <br><br><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>We stay in a false religion.<br>Every Catholic, Muslim, Buddhist, Hindu, animist, and atheist loves the lies of their religion. <br><br><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>We assume most people are saved.<br>&#8220;Many, I tell you, will seek to enter [the gate to Heaven] and will not be able.&#8221; Luke 13:24<br>&#8220;And just as it happened in the days of Noah, so it will be also in the days of the Son of Man.&#8221; Luke 17:24<br>&#8220;When the Son of Man comes will He find faith on the earth?&#8221; Luke 18:8<br>&#8220;You [few believers] will be hated by all [the world] because of My name.&#8221; Luke 21:17 <br><br><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>We sound like the world on man, woman, or sexuality.<br>&#8220;My relative is a lesbian, but she really loves God.&#8221; <br>&#8220;God would want me to show love by supporting these two men at their wedding.&#8221; <br>&#8220;Men are no better at leading than women.&#8221; <br><br><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>We refuse to acknowledge the truth about our children, or we quietly hope better for them than the plain words of Scripture.<br>Do you raise your children as if they are spiritually lost, dead, and in Satan&#8217;s family? <br><br><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>We try to solve spiritual problems with physical solutions.<br>&#8220;Our son has anger issues, but this medication has been doing so much.&#8221; Why would you think pills can do what Paul prescribed repentance for (Col. 3:8)? <br><br><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>We neglect to build our lives and our investments on the truths of the future home the Son is preparing and the eternal, conscious torment of the damned.<br>The final end of the world is permanent and terrifying. To the degree that your life is controlled by some other reality, you are controlled by a lie. <br><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For the month of July, our churches are praying from Psalm 119:163, &#8220;I hate and abhor lying.&#8221; But how can a Christian pray from those few words? Especially, if you think of yourself as a generally honest person? 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